31 May Falling in love with WHO?
Too many of us are getting divorced. I wonder what the problem is. The first thing is that we probably love ourselves far more than we love other people. But I wonder, too, if the problem with so many of us getting divorced is our rushing into marrying the wrong freakin' person. I have a few important questions to ask. When you took that leap, and you fell in love, were there red flags waving before you let your emotions get the best of you? Have you considered the idea that you can fall in love with the wrong person? Wrong person? Ok, well, here's what I think in terms of the wrong person. Someone is wrong for you if: 1)You do not love them for who they are in the moment that you fall in love with them. You love them for their potential. This is TERRIBLE. Run. Now! While your brain is still...